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(My Experiment with Truth, When I stood up alone)


 Vitesh Verma
WHEN I STOOD UP ALONE

I vitesh verma going to share my experience with you when i stood up alone for the woman who met with an accident in ropar in the month of september 2008.It was a sunny afternoon, I was attending my NCC camp at Govt. college, boys hostel ,Ropar.ON that day myself and my two other friends bunked the camp, and were roaming in the market. we saw people had gathered around the side of the road, and when we went that site we came to know that a woman had met with an accident,and she was seriously injured. no one was daring to help her and drop her to the hospital, then i decided that i would help her to drop her to the hospital,but my friends insisted that we should get back to the camp,as we didnt knew anything about the ropar as we belonged to patiala . As nobody was helping her, i decided to help her , but my friends denied to help her,but i convinced one of my friend and then i took her to emergency of eye hospital because i didnt knew anything about ropar and not even any hospital and i found emergency of this hospital only, and there they gave her primary treatment and later they send her to the main hospital and i think she got a proper treatment. on that day i realised that if you are saving someones life then you should carry on and dont bother about others.......

VITESH VERMA
MULTANIMAL MODI COLLEGE.
PATIALA
ADD-HNO.1982/2
TARACHAN STREET,ALUWALIA GURUDWARA ROAD
PATIALA
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Manu modgill
WHEN I STOOD UP ALONE
Humanity is the greatest virtue and worship of God. Abou Ben Adhem asked the Angel , who was writing the names of the people who loved God in her Golden Book. Abou told her that he only loved humanity and believe to serve human beings . The Angel disappeared and come to his dream the next night. To his great astonishment Abou find his topped the list of the people whome God loved. the poet ' Leigh Hunt' has given the message of humanity to the masses.
It so happened on first of August , when I stood up alone to take a bold decision to save one precious life , the creation of GOD ALMIGHTY . It was Solar Eclipse and I happened to visit Rajindera Hospital along with my friend . I came across a poor middle aged man , suffering from Skin Cancer. He had a bump of tumor at his back which was bleeding . Perhaps he lost all the hopes survival. He needed blood transfusion to which I volunteered myself. The Doctor attending told me that in any case his life span is very short . But this didn't detor my decision. My family members when contacted refuted my decision on the pretext that it was a Solar Eclipse and donating blood would bring some vow.But my conscious didn't allow me to move and shatter the hopes of life ,he had in his eyes. Not only myself I encouraged my friend to donate blood for good cause and he did. The patients condition beccame stable and he thanked us with moist eyes. I regularly visited the patient. and perhaps my gesture prolonged his his life for another five months. Alas! He should have lived more. I am thankful to God to have given me an oppurtunity to serve mankind and humanity .


MANU MODGILL
M.M.MODI COLLEGE,
PATIALA.
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Parag Dhiman

My own experiments with the Truth.

‘When in doubt, tell the truth’., these lines by the famous English author, Mark Twain, have a special significance in my life, as they helped me a lot while I was facing a very tough dilemma in my life.
It was the year 2003, and I was in class 10th, was the captain of the school football team, and our school was hosting the revered Inter-School Football tournament.
It was the final match of the tournament, and both the teams (that is our team and the reigning champions) were trying our level best to win that coveted gold., the first prize. And as clichéd it may sound, both were equal in skill, teamwork and perseverance and as a result of that, the match ended in a tie (2-2) after full time.But the story did not end there.
Since this was the final, and it ended in a draw, we were given the extra time period, and as by the rules, the team which wins during that period is declared the winner.
So, the extra time started and both the teams, after ninety minutes of continuous battle were ready to fight some more.
During the extra time, the story remained the same, both teams played their best and the score still remained as a draw .
Now, just three minutes before the end of the extra time period that we got a golden opportunity. We got a corner kick, and as per our plan we sent our corner kick specialist to do the honours whereas I who was good in heading the ball was at my usual position near the goal-post.
So, with the tough smack, our player hit the ball, and it was curling perfectly towards me, the ball was heading straight towards me, as if a god-sent present
and I, in those milli-seconds of time was eagerly awaiting for it and to put it in the back of the net.
So, as planned I headed the ball and it went straight into the goal.
Hurray !!! all my team members burst into happiness and cheer and all the festivities., but all of those were shortlived in my mind, as I had realised that the ball had taken a deflection from my hand on its way to the goal-post, hence it was a hand-ball, therefore not a goal !
There, in that moment, I was confused, as what should I do ?
Whether to keep quiet and not to tell anyone and enjoy the festivities with my team-mates on becoming the champions (as I believe that all of it had happened so fast, that nobody took notice of it) or,
To confess to the referee that it was a hand-ball and was not a goal., and hence spoil my team`s celebrations?
I seriously had no answer to this, therefore in those few seconds I asked the almighty for his help, for his guidance, to guide me as to what should I do.
And I guess he did respond to my prayers.
Suddenly I felt a deep urge for the telling the truth. But before I did that, I had a look at my team members, my coach, and all my other school-mates who were sitting in the audience, and I felt that even we win this match, then it would be a hollow victory for me, and my conscious would not forgive me for lying to all of them, and win this match by cheating.
Therefore, i took a deep breath and started walking towards the match referee and told him the whole thing . The referee then declared the goal as not valid and the scores stood as 2-2 still.
As all of this came to light, the cheers and joys of my team members came to a shattering halt and all of them became quite crossed with me, I could even see my coach staring at me with those glaring eyes, filled with anger and frustration.
And as ironic it may sound, just in the next minute, the other team scored the goal and the score became 3-2, and further, a minute after that the extra time period finished and we lost the game .
I got a lot of berates and even abuses from my team mates and a lot of rebuke from my coach even, but I really did not bother much about that, as i was happy that I did not win by cheating, but lost by playing honestly, and to me that was the most satisfying feeling at that point of time.
Therefore, I would like to conclude by saying, that sometimes in life winning isn’t everything, and if u want to win, then one should with honesty and sincerity, as any victory achieved by false means as good as an embarrassing defeat.

Parag Dhiman,GGDSD college, sec 32
chandigarh

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Ritika jha

My experiment with truth, when I stood up alone

1. I belong to Bihar. In our culture huge amount of dowry is involved in marriages which come out to be around 15 to 20 lack Rs per marriage. My brother got married last year to a girl of his own choice. She's a south Indian. At the time of the marriage similar issues relating the dowry aroused in my family. My sister-in-law's family was totally opposed to the dowry transaction. My parents, in spite of being opposed to the idea of taking the dowry were pushed down by the relatives and my grandparents. All of them, time and again pressurized my parents to demand for the dowry or to cancel the marriage otherwise. Here, me and my brother were totally opposed to the of dowry. I am a dominant member in my family. When I supported my brother, everyone including my parents scolded me. They even tried to get my brother and sister-in-law apart from one another and break the relationship. At that time, I took the initiative to talk to all my elders sitting one to one and convinced everyone for the marriage and made them realize their mistake of breaking the marriage just because of the non-payment of the dowry. Now everything is going well.

2. I am a media student. The previous year we were supposed to take an internship from any of the media work places (TV, radio, newspaper). At that time majority of my classmates came up with fake certificates. They suggested me also to do the same. But I went for the interview in the radio stations of the city. Got selected and received my original certificate.


Ritika Jha
GGDSD college, sec 32
chandigarh